1. Reduce your contact with him.
Because you both have hectic schedules, it’s possible that you don’t see each other much throughout the day. However, if you communicate often during the day, informing each other on events, you may consider limiting it to the basics. Even a few hours without hearing from you might cause him to miss you. You’ll have something to speak about when you get home at the end of the day or when you meet up with him if you don’t live together.
2. Don’t reply to him right away.
3. Make him want more.
Make sure that there are some things left unsaid and more to catch up on so that he doesn’t become bored. No matter how long you’ve been together, a small air of mystery and unavailability always adds spice to a relationship.
4. Don’t drop other things for him.
Respect him and establish plans with him, but don’t be scared to make your own. Don’t abandon your plans simply because he doesn’t like them. Your family and friends, your work, and your overall well-being must all be priorities. Sending him the message that, while you love him, he isn’t the center of your world can help you maintain a better, more respectful balance.
5. Surprise him.
6. Begin life for yourself.
If you lose yourself in a relationship, you will never be completely satisfied, and the cracks will appear. What are the things that make you happy that you haven’t done since he’s been in your life? What are you missing? What truly makes you feel like your authentic self? Is there a pastime or cause that you were really fond of? Re-embracing some of the things that made your heart sing will make you happier, but it will also remind him of what drew him to you in the first place.
7. Take advantage of this opportunity to spend time with your friends and family.
8. Leave him reminders of you.
If you don’t live together, leaving something tiny at his house indicates he’ll remember you everytime he sees it. If you live together, you may sneak a letter or a tiny gift into his bag as he leaves to make him happy and keep him dreaming of you and make him miss you like crazy.
9. Be yourself.
If this is the ideal person for you, he will love you at your wackiest and most unusual. When you let your individuality shine, he won’t be able to resist you. Day to day life may be dulling some of that radiance, but battling against it and being honestly you will ensure he is reminded of why he fell in love with you and begins to miss spending time with you.