I’m going to reveal some concrete steps you can take to cultivate your love and make sure it endures to assist you get there. These secrets will keep him in love with you forever once you’ve found love. But don’t wait to put them to use until you’ve discovered love. Knowing them and incorporating them into your lifestyle and thinking today will really help you discover the appropriate partner and prepare you mentally for a healthy relationship.
1. Choose wisely
You’re ready for a committed relationship, so choose a guy who wants to commit. He needs to share your values and your vision for the future.
How well do you mesh? Do you get along well and enjoy each other? Do you respect one another? Can you argue when you disagree and reach a resolution, or do you tear each other down and always end up having the same argument over and over again?
Essentially, how well do you work together as a team? That’s what a relationship is; it’s a partnership and you’re on the same team. If you can’t cooperate and function well together on a practical level, it doesn’t matter how strongly you feel about each other because your difficult day-to-day interactions will eventually erode the love you feel when you can’t get along.
2. Don’t chase him or force things
You can’t force love. You can’t make a man feel the way you want him to feel about you. If you have to spend a lot of time and energy getting him to step up or behave the way you want him to, it’s probably not the right relationship because love just doesn’t work that way. It should feel pretty natural and easy, not like work or like you have to “manage” everything to make the relationship flow.
This means that you shouldn’t chase after him and try to prove that you’re a worthy candidate for his time and attention. You shouldn’t try to win him over! First, this never works, and second, it definitely won’t fill him with feelings of love. He’ll just get complacent and come to expect certain things from you because they are so freely given.
Don’t act like his girlfriend until you are. Give him the space to move toward you. Although guys don’t necessarily love the chase, they appreciate the opportunity to have some room to pursue a woman because that means she’s worth it. It’s in a man’s nature to pursue, so if you wrap yourself in a bow and deliver yourself to him, and he doesn’t have to work a bit for you, he probably won’t see your value.
3.Be a woman in his corner
Being in his corner demonstrates that he trusts you. You accept and value everything about the complete you—the man he is and the man he aspires to be. He has your complete support, admiration, and faith.
You are constantly on his side because you are his ally and not his foe. He doesn’t have to worry about being judged or that you’ll use what he says against him.
It’s acceptable if he occasionally says things you don’t want to hear. Instead of interpreting everything through the prism of what you need and desire from him, you’ll listen to him with empathy and recognize that this is who he is.
4. Love him the way he wants to be loved
I’m sure you’ve heard of the five “love languages,” but if you haven’t, the idea is that we all experience love differently and because of that we give and receive love in different ways. People may experience love through physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gift giving, or quality time.
Even though he may be loving you in the way that he like to be loved, you still don’t feel loved, therefore you get resentful of him because of it. You could be treating him the same way.
It’s crucial to express how much each of you values the other.
Examining the ways he makes an effort to show you love will help you find out how to make him feel appreciated. Does he frequently give you small presents and other evidence of his love yet seldom complements you? It’s probable that delivering gifts, rather than verbal validation, is his love language.
5. Have many sources of happiness
You need to continue being you in order to keep him in love with you. Do exciting and satisfying things in your life other the relationship; don’t rely on it to make you happy. Keep up with your activities, maintain your connections, and find several sources of fulfillment. Because it keeps you intriguing, this keeps a relationship new and interesting.
How would it make you feel if he stopped doing the things he enjoyed, hanging out with his friends, and leading a life apart from you? You might not even recognize the person you fell in love with, and you would definitely feel stifled.
The finest relationships are those in which two happy, whole individuals join together rather than two damaged people who rely on one another to help them mend.
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6. Be your best self
Make it a habit to be your best self. When you’re in a relationship, it might be simple to slip into laziness, but if you don’t take care of yourself, it shows how little you regard yourself, and if you don’t value yourself highly, why should he?
Being your healthiest self includes being mentally and emotionally at your best. You desire to feel and appear your best.
Being an object of lust will keep him interested and the lust alive because men are visual creatures. What woman doesn’t enjoy feeling sexy, thus this will also make you feel wonderful.
Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is a key component of taking care of your bodily needs. Exercise, a healthy diet, and sufficient rest