You’ve known her for years, and you finally realized you love her. The problem? You’re too shy to tell her! Luckily, there are plenty of ways to tell a girl you love her without being shy or seeming desperate, so you can enjoy the moment with your lady and not come off as clingy or crazy. Here are 8 ways to tell a girl you love her without being shy.
1) Say it in person
1. When she first wakes up in the morning, tell her that you’re glad she’s not your alarm clock. 2. Write I love you on the toast. 3. Leave her notes around the house telling her how wonderful she is and how much you appreciate being with her. 4. Sing Beautiful Woman or another love song for her and tell her how awesome she is at the end of it (just don’t do this unless you can carry a tune). 5.
2) Use social media
One of the best ways to tell a girl you love her is by using social media, but there are still some dos and don’ts when using it. Here are some tips on how to do this without coming off as creepy:
– Keep it classy. Sending messages or leaving comments with weird innuendos might get her attention but she won’t take you seriously and could end up being creeped out. Treat your Facebook message like an actual letter so it comes across as genuine.
3) Write a letter
I hope you’re having a good day. I would like to say that I care about you, but I want to do so much more than just care.
You don’t know how long I’ve been trying to find the words to tell you what’s in my heart.
4) With flowers or chocolates
Of course there are many different ways that you can show someone you love them without being too shy. The most popular route might be with flowers or chocolates, but there are also other creative methods as well. No matter what, make sure that it is something that is special and not out of the ordinary. And remember, actions speak louder than words. The bigger step you take in showing your love, the greater the result will be in how she will feel about you!
5) In song
If you want her to hear it, make sure she knows that you mean it. Get creative and make your feelings known! I would recommend: -Writing the lyrics for a song for her, even if you’re not musically inclined. It’s better than just blurting out words because she might miss some of what you said because she’s thinking about something else. Plus, songs can be catchy so maybe she’ll be listening and singing along with the chorus.
6) Instagram Story
You’ve found the love of your life and you’re feeling shy about telling her. Fear not, because there are plenty of ways to let her know that you feel something deep and meaningful for her without being afraid of rejection or upsetting her.
I love you, with all of my heart, but I don’t want to scare you away.
I can tell that you’re holding back, so please don’t hide from me.
I promise that I will be the man that stands by your side and lets his love shine through.
No one will ever come close, because there is no one else for me but you.
8) Good old fashioned card
Handwritten notes are one of the most sentimental things you can do for a woman and this is true whether you’re trying to woo her or not. Send her one that says You’re amazing or Happy Birthday and she’ll feel like the luckiest girl in the world. If cards aren’t your thing, give her flowers instead. They always make women happy, no matter what kind of day they’ve had. If she’s in the office, bring her some coffee and talk with her over lunch.