1. Agukoraho
Abagabo mubuzima bwa buri munsi ntabwo bakunda gukoranaho ugereranije nabagore. kubona umugabo agukoraho mugihe bidakenewe, ubu ni inzira yo kubona ko agukunda. arashobora gukora ku kuboko kwawe no ku mavi. Nibimenyetso bito byerekana ko agukunda.
2. Muhuza amaso.
Niba umusore abasha guhuza amaso nawe aragukunda. Ariko aramutse ahita areba hirya igihe murebanye agatangira yitegereza ibindi, uwo musore ntabwo agukunda ahubwo wakomeza gushakisha. Ibimenyetso byoroshye byerekana ko umuhungu akwiyumvamo niki kirimo.
3. Akubaza niba ufite umukunzi
Aramutse akubajije ati: “Ufite umukunzi?” biragaragara ko ashishikajwe no kuba umukunzi wawe. Ariko, ntabwo abagabo benshi bazaba muburyo bworoheje gutya. Ahubwo bazabaza ibibazo atagusha kuntego kugirango babimenye. Ashobora kukbwira ko ntamukunzi afite yizeye ko uzamunsubiza “nanjye.”
4. Yibuka utuntu duto kuri wowe.
Ntabwo ari ubusa kuba warahuye nawe inshuro nke kandi akaba yibuka ibintu bimwe mubiganiro byanyu mbere. Iyo agukunze, azitondera cyane ibyo uvuga kuko aba ashaka kukumenya no kumenya ibyo utekereza. Ibimenyetso byoroshye byerekana ko umuhungu akwiyumvamo niki kirimo.
5. Ashiramo imbaraga mukiganiro
Niba umusore agukunda, azagerageza kuvugana nawe. Mushobora gutangira nkikiganiro kitaryoshyashye bikarangira bibaye uburyo bwiza bwo kumenyana. Rimwe na rimwe, abagabo ntibazi icyo bavuga ngo ikiganiro kibe kirekire, ariko uburyo yumva ibyo uvuga kandi akubaza ibibazo kubyo uvuga, nyakabuza uwo musore agufitiye ibyiyumviro.
6. Mugihe muri kumwe imyitwarire ye irahinduka.
Niba umusore agukunda, azitangira kukuvugisha. Abahungu na abakobwa bitwara mmubiryo butandukanye. Ariko mugihe umusore yitwa muburyo burenze ubusanzwe urugero nko kuvuga amagambo menshi cyangwa make, bigaragaza ko agufitiye ibyiyumviro ariko yabuze uko abigaragaza.
7. Yambara neza kugirango umubone.
Biroroshye. Nta mukobwa wifuza gukundana numusore bigaragara ko ari adakeye. Niba ashyize imbaraga mu myambarire ye cyangwa akagira impumuro nziza ihenze mugihe uhari, uwo musore agufitiye ubyiyumviro! Ibimenyetso byoroshye byerekana ko umuhungu akwiyumvamo
8. Aragufuhira iyo uvuganye na bandi basore.
9. Inshuti ze zibasiga mwenyine.
Niba ugiye iwe bagenzi be babasiga mwenyine, birashoboka cyane ko aba agukunda. Kubera iki? Kuberako yerekanye neza ko agukunda kuri kunshuti ze kandi arimo gushakisha igihe cyiza cyanyu mwenyine.
Igihe cyose umusore agukunze, uzabona ibi bimenyetso byerekana ko akiyumvamo . Nibyiza kubanza kwiga kumyitwarire y’ umusore ahokugirango nyuma uzasange wari waribeshye. Ibimenyetso byoroshye byerekana ko umuhungu akwiyumvamo nibi birimo.
