Inama 5 zo Kurambagiza Umugore watandukanya nuwo babanaga

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Gutandukana birababaza cyane, cyane cyane iyo ibintu byabaye vuba kandi ntibishobora gukemuka. Igabana ry’ubutunzi, abana, no kwinangira vuba-kuba abahoze ari abagabo ni bimwe mu bintu bigora gutandukana kandi bikarushaho gutera ububabare ku bagore benshi.

Kenshi na kenshi, gukundana numugore unyuze mubutane birashobora kwerekana ko ari itegeko rirerire, cyane cyane iyo umugabo azi bike kubijyanye no gufata abagore banyuze mubutane.

Uwahoze ari umugabo we vuba ashobora kandi kutitegura kubona undi mugabo hamwe n’uwahoze ari umugore we bagahitamo guhagarika umubano mushya w’umugore.

Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, rimwe na rimwe ibintu birashobora kugenda neza. Hamwe no gutandukana bigatuma gahunda yo gutandukana byemewe gusa, bitarimo igitutu cyangwa imihangayiko.

Kubasanze gusa bakundana vuba-vuba gutandukana, ni ngombwa kuzirikana ko ari icyegeranyo kirenze ibyo ubona hanze; kandi umenye ko nawe agizwe nubukwe bwe bwashize, inzira yo gutandukana, nubuzima bwumuryango.

Kuzirikana ibi bituma akazi kawe koroha kuko ufite gusobanukirwa neza ibidukikije byumugore wawe byahise nibigezweho, bityo, bizashobora kumukemura neza no kwihutisha inzira ye yo gukira.

Ariko, niba ukundana numugore ugiye gutandukana, iki gitabo kizaguha inama nkeya ariko zifatizo zuburyo bwo gukundana numugore unyuze mubutane.

1. Gerageza Gusobanukirwa Nibyo Ari Gucamo

 

Ibiteganijwe hamwe n’ibyishimo bizanwa numubano mushya birashobora guteshwa agaciro muriki kibazo, nubwo bikemuwe neza, birashobora kugerwaho.

Umugore wese uhanganye nuburyo bwo gutandukana mugihe akundana icyarimwe, ntabwo azwi, akora imibanire ibiri ishobora kugorana. Umwe ararangira, undi ni ugutora gusa.

Kuba mubucuti numugore nkuyu bisaba kwihangana kurwego rwo hejuru.

Rimwe na rimwe uzabona kugira ibihe byo kwishima kuko arimo arangiza igice kitishimye cyane mubuzima bwe. kandi ikindi gihe, ashobora kuzura kwicuza cyangwa umubabaro kubyo ubukwe bwashize bwazanye mubuzima bwe.

Umugabo ukundana numugore ugiye gutandukana azakenera kumva ibibazo byose arimo arwana no kumvikana no kwerekana ubwitonzi nurukundo uko akiza. Birashoboka ko azagwa mumyumvire itandukanye ukurikije icyamurenze muri iki gihe.

Rimwe na rimwe, ushobora no kubona ko agifite ibyiyumvo kuri uwahoze ari umugabo we, bishobora guhungabanya umubano wawe.

Ariko icyo agukeneyeho muri iki gihe nukwihangana no gusobanukirwa uko ibintu bimeze ubu. Niba ushoboye kumuha ibyo, birashoboka ko yakemura ibyiyumvo bye mubihe byashize.

2. Ibuka abana

Inama 5 zo Kurambagiza Umugore watandukanya nuwo babanaga
Inama 5 zo Kurambagiza Umugore watandukanya nuwo babanaga

 

Niba umugore utanye afite abana bavanze, noneho uzakenera kumva ko bishobora gufata abana umwanya muto kugirango bakumenye. Birashoboka ko bayobewe umugabo mushya mubuzima bwumugabo wabo kandi ntibazi neza uko bakwiyumvamo.

Inzira nziza yo kubigendaho ni ugutezimbere guhuza amagambo yashizweho na nyina kuko aribyo byoroheye mama ndetse nabana.

Ubushake bwawe bwo guhura nabana mugihe bishimiye guhura nawe nintambwe nziza yo kukumenyesha hamwe nabana.

3. Inyungu umugabo ashobora kwishimira

 

Kurambagiza umugore unyuze mubutane cyangwa umuntu wanyuze mubitandukanya bifite inyungu nibindi byinshi kumugabo niba ari serieux mubucuti.

Abagore banyuze mubukwe barangije gutandukana cyangwa ubundi buryo ubwo aribwo bwose byemewe n’amategeko, bazi byinshi kubyerekeranye nuburyo umubano ukura.

Bazi kandi imitego ishobora kwangiza umubano mushya.

Ibi nibyiza cyane k’ umugabo kuko bituma umugore arushaho kwiyemeza umubano.

5. Ibitekerezo byo kwitondera

 

Nubwo bitumvikana nkaho byumvikana, burigihe hariho amahirwe yuko umugore numugabo we-vuba-uwahoze ari umugabo we bashobora kwiyunga, bitewe nicyiciro cyo gutandukana kigenda nigihe mwembi mwahuye.

Ikindi gishobora kubaho ni uko bombi (we n’umugabo we-vuba-uwahoze ari umugabo we) bashobora gushaka kwiyunga, ariko urebye ko hari umugabo uri ku ishusho, ibintu birashobora kuba ingorabahizi kandi bitateganijwe.

 Kuburira

 

Usibye ingorane zavuzwe haruguru zishobora kuvuka, ushobora kandi gukenera kumenya ko gukundana numugore ugiye gutandukana bishobora kugutera kwisubiraho. Urashobora kuba umusore ukwiye usohoka mugihe gikwiye ariko rero ntabwo arumufasha wigihe kirekire wumugore.

Ni ngombwa rero gufata ibintu gahoro gahoro kandi ukagira inyuma yibitekerezo byawe,  ko ibyo nabyo bishobora kuba umubano wigihe gito nubwo waba ushaka ko biba ikintu kirekire.

Ibi nukuri kuko abagore benshi batandukana mubisanzwe ntibashaka gusimbuka neza mubucuti bukomeye.

Ku rundi ruhande, ni byiza kandi gutekereza ku buryo bushoboka bwo gutuma uyu mubano mushya wabonetse ukomera. niba umubano we wambere utari wishimye cyane n’imbeho.

Ibi byose nibishoboka bikeneye gutekereza cyane mbere yo kwinjira muri uyu mubano

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