Mushikiwawe arashobora kuba inshuti yawe magara, ariko zirashobora kandi kuba abantu bababaza cyane kwisi. Ntabwo bitwaye uko ubakunda cyangwa kangahe ubabaza – bashiki bacu ni bashiki bawe kandi uzahorana umwe. Niba ushaka kujyirana umubano murwego rukurikira, dore inzira 10 zo kuba mushiki wumuntu mwiza ushobora kuba, hamwe nibitekerezo bimwe byukuntu ushobora kubikuramo.
1) Wibande ku miterere
Bashiki bacu ni isoko ihoraho yo gushyigikirwa no gusabana, urashaka rero kumenya neza ko uhari kubasubiza. Ibi bitekerezo 10 bizafasha mushiki wawe kumenya icyo agusobanurira nuburyo umukunda.
2) Garagaza ugushimira
Urakoze kuntera kumva ko ari umwamikazi umbwira ko ndi umunyabwenge, urwenya, n’ubutwari. Urakoze kubwinama zawe no gutega ugutwi. Uri mushiki wawe utangaje uhora hafi yanjye ntakibazo!
3) Ntukureho ibibazo byawe
Mugihe wumva urakaye cyangwa ucitse intege, ibuka ko mushiki wawe adakwiriye kuba igikapu cyo gukubita amarangamutima yawe. Waba ukorana na mushiki wawe, murumuna wawe, cyangwa undi muntu mumuryango wawe, ni ngombwa gutekereza mbere yo gukora kandi ukitondera uburyo wigaragaza. Bitabaye ibyo, ushobora guhomba gutakaza umuntu uri hafi yawe.
4) Shigikira intego zabo
Urashobora kuba mushiki we udakunda cyangwa ukora ibyo umuvandimwe wawe akora byose. Shigikira inyungu za murumuna wawe umuherekeza kumukino we kandi umwishimire mubantu! Gura mushiki wawe izo nkweto zitangaje yagiye abona. Bitume yumva afite imbaraga mu kumutera inkunga. Mumenyeshe ko umwishimiye binyuze mumagambo meza nibikorwa mugihe afite umunsi utoroshye kumurimo cyangwa arwana nishuri.
5)Bahe amahirwe yo gutsinda
6) Wubahe amahitamo yabo
7) Reka bakore amakosa
Mugihe bakoze amakosa, ubemerera kubigiraho. Ntibishoboka ko umuntu uwo ari we wese, harimo n’abantu bakuru, bamenya byose adakoze amakosa. Kureka bagakira kandi ukongera ukagerageza bizaba imwe mu mpano zawe zikomeye nka mushiki wawe.
8) Ba inyangamugayo
Twese tuzi mushiki wawe nkuyu: bazi ko bagomba kuba beza, ariko ntibazumva iyo ubabwiye impamvu bagomba kureka kuba babi. Ahari igihe kirageze ngo urukundo ruke rukomeye aho. Niba mushiki wawe atiyubashye kandi utagira umutima mwiza ukaba ushaka ko ahinduka, umwibutse uburyo ashaka ko abandi bantu bamwitwara, cyangwa umwibutse uko byumva iyo umuntu ari mubi.
9) Bashishikarize kugera ku nzozi zabo
Nizera ko buri mushiki agomba gukora cyane kandi ntazigera areka inzozi zabo. Hari igihe bisa nkaho byoroshye gukora ntacyo hanyuma ukajyana gusa, ariko ugomba kwishyiriraho intego, ukamenya ibyo ushyira imbere, ugakomeza guhanga amaso, kandi ntuzigere uhagarika gutera imbere. Kugirango dutere imbere mubuzima kandi ntiturokoke gusa tugomba gufata ibyago. Rimwe na rimwe, izi ngaruka zishobora kutagenda nkuko byateganijwe ariko byibuze wagerageje – wafashe umwanya!
10) Kubakunda uko byagenda kose.
Kunda mushiki wawe nta mpamvu. Ikintu cyoroshye nukunda mushiki wawe mugihe ari mwiza, ariko ugomba no kumukunda nubwo yaba mubi. Fata umwanya buri munsi, uko byagenda kose cyangwa bigufi, hanyuma ushore imari kugirango umenye uwo ari we nkumuntu
