Itandukaniro Ry’ urukundo N’icyubahiro

Itandukaniro Ry' urukundo N'icyubahiro
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Hariho amarangamutima menshi duhura nayo, kandi menshi ni ingenzi muminsi yacu yo gushyikirana. Turagerageza kuba mwiza mugihe dushyikirana nabantu, gusa dukiza ibintu bibabaje mugihe gikwiye. Turagerageza kutareka uburakari bwacu bukatuyobora, hanyuma, tukabureka muburyo bwiza. Amarangamutima aragoye kuyacunga, ariko kubikora, dushobora kubaho ubuzima bworoshye.

 

Hano hari amarangamutima abiri tubona nkikintu tudashobora gutanga gihagije, kandi nurukundo no kubahana. Benshi bizera ko iyaba haribindi byinshi byamarangamutima yombi, isi yari kubaho mubwumvikane bwuzuye, kandi biroroshye kubona impamvu. Kubaha no gukunda ni amarangamutima abiri twese dushaka kwakira, kandi twizera ko turi abantu beza bihagije kugirango tubasubize.

 

Muri iyi nyandiko, tuzareba urukundo no kubahana. Tuzareba kandi dukoreshe ibisobanuro byabyo, ariko kandi tuzibira cyane. Ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati yabo? Tuvuge iki ku bintu bisa? Barabana? Umwe aruta undi? Reka tubimenye.

 

Urukundo

 Itandukaniro Ry' urukundo N'icyubahiro
Itandukaniro Ry’ urukundo N’icyubahiro

 

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Urukundo nijambo rigoye kubisobanura, kuko rishobora kuba rito. Igisobanuro cyiza dushobora gutanga ni kimwe gisobanurwa hifashishijwe inyabutatu y’urukundo. Muri iyo nyigisho, urukundo nyarwo rusobanurwa binyuze mu mico itatu, arizo:

 

Ubucuti

 

Ubucuti bushobora gukoreshwa mubucuti bwinshi. Inshuti ni inkoramutima, imiryango irakundana, kandi abakundana ni inkoramutima. Ubucuti ntabwo ari romantique, ahubwo ni isano ufitanye nabandi. Niba uhuye numuntu kandi afite byinshi ahuriyeho nawe, ugasanga urimo ubikubita neza neza, ufite urwego rwo hejuru rwo kugirana ubucuti nabo. Niba nta bucuti buhari, ntihashobora kubaho urukundo rumara.

 

Ishyaka

 Itandukaniro Ry' urukundo N'icyubahiro
Itandukaniro Ry’ urukundo N’icyubahiro

Ntushobora gutangira urukundo hatabayeho uburyo runaka bwo kwifuza. Ishyaka nigikundiro cyurukundo nigitsina ufite umuntu. Rimwe na rimwe, urashobora kugira ishyaka ridafite urukundo. Urashobora kuba inshuti zifite inyungu cyangwa abantu babiri gusa bibwira ko bakundana mugihe mubyukuri, bafite irari. Mugihe ishyaka rishobora kugabanuka uko imyaka igenda ishira, umubano ukomeye wurukundo uzakomeza kugumana ishyaka kurwego runaka.

 

Kwiyemeza

 

Niba utabona ko ubana numuntu ubuzima bwawe bwose, noneho umubano wawe birashoboka ko uzananirwa. Abashakanye beza biyemeje kubaka ejo hazaza no kugira gahunda runaka yo kumarana ubuzima bwabo bwose, mugihe abashakanye batabikoze bashobora kutarambana.

 

Hano haribisobanuro byinshi byurukundo hanze; nyuma ya byose, ni ingingo yibikorwa byinshi byubuhanzi nubushakashatsi.Ubu nuburyo bworoshye bwo kubisobanura. Hamwe n’ibimaze kuvugwa, twasenye urukundo. Reka turebe icyubahiro turebe icyo aricyo.

 

Kubaha

 

Birashoboka ko ufite gusobanukirwa icyo aricyo, ariko tuzabisobanura muburyo burambuye. Kubaha ni gufata neza umuntu kubera uwo ari we. Mu mico imwe n’imwe, kubaha bifatwa mu buryo bwikora. Ushaka kubaha umuntu utazi uhura nabyo, cyangwa ushaka kubaha abantu mubana. Niba bakoze ikintu kibi, barashobora gutakaza icyubahiro.

 

Twerekana icyubahiro binyuze mubimenyetso bimwe nko guhana amaboko cyangwa kugira ikinyabupfura undi muntu. Kubaha umuntu ntibisobanura ko ugomba gusenga ubutaka yiruka, ahubwo ubifate neza.

 

Muyindi mico, icyubahiro kiragerwaho. Wubaha umuntu niba agufashe neza, cyangwa niba akora ikintu gikwiye kubahwa. Kurugero, niba umuntu akora igikorwa cyiza, cyangwa yageze kuri byinshi mubuzima bwe.

 

Abantu bamwe bubaha byimazeyo abantu bamwe. Hariho bamwe bizera ko ubutware bugomba guhita bwubahwa. Bashobora gukoresha ibitemewe, nkigihe ubuyobozi bubonwa ko bwakoresheje nabi ububasha bwabo. Abandi barashobora kwizera ko ubutware bugomba guhora butizerana kandi butubahwa kubera imbaraga badufashe.

 

Abandi bantu bavugwa ko bakwiriye kubahwa byikora ni ababyeyi nabantu bakuze. Ababyeyi ni bo bakuzanye, benshi rero bemeza ko bakwiriye kubahwa mu buryo bwikora kubera ibyo, mu gihe bamwe bashobora kwizera ko icyubahiro kikiboneka bitewe n’imikorere y’ababyeyi.

 

Ntabwo bigoye nkurukundo, ariko haracyari impaka nyinshi zerekeye uwagombye kubahwa nuburyo, birakwiye rero ko tureba. Kandi hariho ibimenyetso byo gusuzugura mubucuti, harimo kudakora umwanya, kubika ibintu hagati yabo, no kutakumenyekanisha mumibereho yabo.

 

Itandukaniro riri hagati y’urukundo no kubaha

 

Itandukaniro nyamukuru riri hagati yurukundo no kubahana nuko umwe agenewe abantu bose, undi agenewe uwo muntu udasanzwe mubuzima bwawe. Ugomba kubaha abantu bose muhuye keretse bafite impamvu zifatika zo kutabikora. Nubwo wizera ko icyubahiro kibonetse, ntuzigera wubaha umuntu iyo ubifashe nabi. Nibyiza ko uba mwiza, ukagaragaza impuhwe, kandi ukubaha. Nubwo utemeranya numuntu, ntugasuzugure keretse ufite impamvu yumvikana yo kubikora.

 

Isano iri hagati yo kubaha n’ urukundo

Niba ukundana numuntu, ugomba kubaha cyane umubano wakazi. Wubaha umukunzi wawe nkumuntu, nkumukunzi, kandi wubaha ibindi bice byubuzima byose

 

Bimwe mubintu bigomba kubahwa mubucuti harimo

 

Nubwo mukundana, haracyari imipaka nimbibi mubucuti ubwo aribwo bwose. Gushiraho iyo mipaka ni ikintu kigomba kubaho, kandi rero cyubaha imipaka kandi ntikirenze

Ibyo umuntu yagezeho. Mugihe mwembi mugerageza kugera kuntego, mugomba kubahana mugihe intego igeze, cyane cyane niba intego yari umuntu kugiti cye

Inshuti n’umuryango wa mugenzi wawe. Nibyiza kugira ibyo mutumvikanaho ninshuti cyangwa umuryango wumukunzi wawe, ariko ugomba kubifata neza niba ushaka kubungabunga amahoro mumibanire no kwerekana ibibazo ushobora kuba ufite mubuzima bwiza

Kubaha ibyifuzo byumukunzi. Ibi birasa nimbibi zigenga ariko ahubwo zivuga mugihe umufatanyabikorwa azanye ikintu bumva cyangwa batumva bakora. Kurugero, niba umukunzi atumva gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina muri iryo joro, wubahe ibyifuzo byabo

Kubaha n’inshingano z’uburinganire

 

Imyizerere imwe nuko kubaha biterwa nuburinganire. Umugore mubucuti agomba gukundwa, mugihe umugabo agomba kubahwa. Umugabo niwe ugomba gufata umugore impano no gusomana, mugihe umugore agarura ubutoni yubaha ibyifuzo bye kandi akamwitaho

 

Nuburyo buke bwa kera bwo kubireba. Umugore arashobora kurera no guha umugabo urukundo, mugihe umugabo ashobora kubaha umugore kumwanya we. Mu mibanire myiza, urukundo no kubahana bigomba kuba byombi, kandi ntibigomba guterwa nuburinganire bwabantu mubucuti

 

Kubaha birahambaye kuruta Urukundo Mubucuti

 

Hano hari ikibazo gishobora gutera amaso amwe kugenda. Ku bijyanye n’umubano, urukundo cyangwa kubaha ni ngombwa? Urashobora gushaka kwizera urukundo. Nyuma ya byose, niyo mpamvu mwembi muri kumwe, kandi igomba gutsinda byose. Ariko, iyo urebye neza, ushobora gutekereza ibintu ukundi. Niba nta cyubahiro, umubano ntuzaramba cyangwa urashobora gutukwa. Niba utubaha umukunzi wawe, uzarenga umurongo nabo, usuzugure ijambo ryabo ryose, wice kwigirira ikizere mubikorwa, kandi ushobora kurangiza kubabaza mugihe kirekire

 

Nubwo kumva ishyaka, ubucuti, no kwiyemeza ari ngombwa, kubaha nibyo bituma byose hamwe. Umubano wose urabisaba. Ubucuti butubaha bwubatswe kuramba. Umuryango utubahana, waba umubyeyi wumwana cyangwa umwana kubabyeyi, ntuzaguma hamwe igihe kirekire

 

Kurangiza rero, yego, kubaha birashobora kuba ikintu cyingenzi kiranga. Nugufata abantu nkuko ushaka gufatwa. Amategeko ya Zahabu yabayeho kuva kera no mumadini menshi n’imico myinshi, kandi kubwimpamvu

 

Shakisha ubufasha

 

Niba ufite ikibazo cyumubano wawe, ntushobora kumenya uwo witabaza. Nta soni kuvugana numujyanama wumubano, ushobora gufasha kugarura urukundo nicyubahiro mubucuti

 

Umujyanama yagenewe gufasha abashakanye bakeneye, cyangwa umuntu ku giti cye ushaka gukuramo ikintu mu gituza. Ku bijyanye n’abashakanye, hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora gukenera inama. Rimwe na rimwe, imipaka irengerwa mugihe cyo kubaha. Ibindi bihe, hashobora kubaho indi mpamvu ituma ugira ikibazo mumibanire yawe. Gushyikirana nabi, gucunga nabi imari, nizindi mpamvu zo gutongana. Hamwe numujyanama, urashobora kuganira nibintu nundi muntu wa gatatu utuma imitwe ituza kandi ikamenya kugera kubwumvikane.

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