Kohereza ubutumwa ex kumunsi wamavuko nibyiza?

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Kubwibyo rero banza ikunze kohereza ubutumwa ex kumunsi wamavuko ari kumeza ukeka ko byose ari byiza kandi ikirere kiba cyiza. Ibyo ari byo byose, harigihe rwose ubutumwa bwohererejwe uwahoze ari umunsi wamavuko ni amakuru ateye ubwoba. Menya niba Kohereza ubutumwa ex kumunsi wamavuko nibyiza?

1. Uracyafite ibyiyumvo kuri bo

 

Vuga gusa oya. Dufate ko amarangamutima ari mashya kandi ukaba ugerageza gukomeza, gusa ntukagire akanya gato ujyayo. Mugihe ubishaka, sohoka hamwe na mugenzi wawe cyangwa urinde neza ubwonko bwawe kuri ex kugeza umunsi urangiye.

Ku mahirwe yo kuba ufite ibyiyumvo byoroheje kuri bo, inyandiko iyariyo yose, niyo imwe itagira icyaha nkumunsi wamavuko wishimye birashobora guhita byerekana no kubabaza.

2. Uramurakariye

 

Ndetse abashakanye barangirira kumagambo meza bafite uburakari cyangwa umururazi. Umuntu yaba yegereye mugenzi we mushya cyangwa yagerageje gukubita Umukunzi wundi, ntugire ibyago byo gufungura ibikomere bishaje.

Niba hari uburakari bushya hagati yawe, nubwo bworoheje, reka reka. Ntibazagutegereza inyandiko yawe cyangwa kuyitegereza. Niba kandi aribyo, ntibigeze bakomeza, ndetse numunsi wamavuko kuri ex wawe irashobora gutera ibibazo.

 

3. Urabakumbuye

Twese dufite ibihe iyo tubuze abahoze turi kumwe. Bibaho. Wibanze kubyibuka byiza kandi ushaka kugera kubibutsa cyangwa kubereka gusa ko ubitekereza. Icyo ni igitekerezo kibi.

Niba ubakumbuye, isabukuru y’amavuko irashobora kuva mubintu byoroshye kugeza byuzuye byihuse. Gusa rero. Ntukeneye kohereza ubutumwa. Ntamuntu numwe uzatekereza ko uri mubi cyangwa udafite umutima. Bose kutaboherereza ubutumwa bavuga ko wimutse. Niba rwose ubakumbuye, bizanyura igihe.

 Kohereza Utubutumwa uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe kumunsi wamavuko ni byiza?
Kohereza Utubutumwa uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe kumunsi wamavuko ni byiza?

4. Warahinduye iyo ngingo

Niba warimutse, nibyiza kuri wowe. Niba utarigeze utekereza kuri ex wawe cyangwa ngo uvugane nabo mumezi ashize, byiza. Ariko, wabonye gusa kuri kalendari yawe cyangwa kumurongo ko aribwo bavutse, none niki?

Ntabwo ubatekereza kubindi bihe byumwaka cyangwa kubandikira igihe cyose bashyize ikintu kumurongo. Komeza rero. Nta mpamvu yo kubigeraho. Mubishoboka byose, ntibatekereza nawe kohererezanya ubutumwa. Reka rero imbwa isinziriye ibeshya. Komeza icyo gice.

 

5. Mwaratandukanye

Ntacyo bitwaye niba waratandukanije icyumweru gishize, ukwezi gushize, cyangwa ejo. Niba icyo gikomere ari gishya, ndetse nko kuri Instagram ikurura umutima. Rero, umunsi-wuzuye wamavuko inyandiko irinda kwimuka nta nzira.

Nukuri, aho bigeze, barashobora kukubabaza utaragera, ariko rero niki? Ntabwo ari inshingano zawe gutuma uwahoze akunda yumva ameze neza cyangwa akumva ko ukibitayeho. Nibyo, ibyo byumvikana nabi, ariko nukuri.

6. Mwagize gutandukana nabi

 

Nubwo waba waratandukanye imyaka yashize, niba mwaratandukanye nabi, harimo kurwana, gutaka, cyangwa guhahamuka, ntukenewe kohereza ubutumwa uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe kumunsi wamavuko. Hari amahirwe menshi yuko ntanumwe muri mwe wigeze afunga ibyo, kabone niyo byaba hashize igihe. Kandi ku isabukuru yabo ntabwo arigihe cyo gukemura ibibazo bya kera.

 

7. Urizera ko mushobira gusubirana

Niba ushaka rwihishwa gusubira hamwe cyangwa ukumva ufite irungu gusa, na none, isabukuru y’amavuko yawe ntabwo arigihe cyo kubigeraho. Kuvuga isabukuru nziza ni ikintu kimwe, ariko niba wizeye ikintu kirenze kugushimira, uzabasiga ufite uburyohe bubi mumunwa. Birashoboka ko uzababara, kandi birashoboka ko bazarakara. Noneho, shaka ubusabane ahandi. Ni isabukuru yabo, nibayizihize utari kumwe; nta n’inyandiko yawe.

 

8. Afite undi mukunzi, kandi wowe ntawe

Ishyari ni ibyiyumvo bibi. Urashobora kumira ibyo ushaka byose hanyuma ukitwaza ko ubishimiye byukuri kuri bo, ariko niba utari mubucuti, birashoboka ko uri umururazi muto. Ntukandike uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe kumunsi wamavuko niba aribibazo byawe. Urashobora gutekereza ko uri umwere ariko ntubikore. Ntabwo gusa ibi bishobora guhungabanya umubano wawe wubu, ariko ntibikenewe. Ikintu cyinzirakarengane ushobora kubakorera ntabwo ari inyandiko. Nubwo waba utekereza ko uri mwiza gusa, kandi birumvikana ko igice cyawe ari cyiza, nibyiza gukomeza intera yawe.

 

9. Wagiye ukurikirana imbuga nkoranyambaga ze

Wari uziko isabukuru yabo iri kwiyongera. Wakomeje gushakisha inkuru zabo za Instagram hamwe na Facebook. Twese turabikora rimwe na rimwe, ariko niba ubikora, uba ushoyemo imari kuruta uko byahamagariwe.

Nukuri, urashobora kubifuriza isabukuru nziza kumugaragaro kurubuga rusange kuburyo bidakenewe rwose gusubiza hamwe nibindi bisa, ariko kuki ubabaye? Usanzwe wigira umusazi muto ukora iperereza kuri buri mafoto yabo, kuki wishyira mubikorwa byo gusesengura inyandiko?

 

10. Utekereza ko bizatuma bagukumbura

Vuga gusa oya. Dufate ko amarangamutima ari mashya kandi ukaba ugerageza gukomeza, gusa ntukagire akanya gato ujyayo. Mugihe ubishaka, sohoka hamwe na mugenzi wawe cyangwa urinde neza ubwonko bwawe kuri ex kugeza umunsi urangiye.

Ku mahirwe yo kuba ufite ibyiyumvo byoroheje kuri bo, inyandiko iyariyo yose, niyo imwe itagira icyaha nkumunsi wamavuko wishimye birashobora guhita byerekana no kubabaza.

Nyuma yo gosoma umenye niba kohereza uwo mwahoze mukundana ubutumwa ari byiza? Kohereza Utubutumwa uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe kumunsi wamavuko ni byiza?

 

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