Nigute Wakundwa Kandi Ukanubahwa

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Noneho, abantu bose bakunda ababyeyi babo kandi barabubaha, kandi icyo ni ikintu duhuriyeho twese – turashaka gukundwa no kubahwa. Noneho, dore zimwe munzira nabonye kandi numvise muburyo akora ibi.

 

1. Guha abantu inzira

Nigute Wakundwa Kandi Ukanubahwa
Nigute Wakundwa Kandi Ukanubahwa

 

Ibi nibijyanye no kuzirikana ibyiyumvo byabo, no kubaha uburyo bwo gukiza isura. Bazabishima rwose nubwo ntacyo bigeze bavuga, kandi niba ukora ibinyuranye, uramutse ubegereye, barashobora kubyanga ubuziraherezo. Ninkaho ufite umujura munzu yawe, ntushaka guhagarara imbere yabo no kubuza gusohoka. Urashaka gukuraho inzira kugirango basohoke neza, kandi ntamuntu ubabaza.

 

2. Shimira kumugaragaro, kunegura umwe-umwe wenyine

 

Icya kabiri, avuga gushima abantu kumugaragaro, no kunegura gusa iyo uri umwe kuri wenyine kandi wenyine. Ibi bifitanye isano no kuzigama isura nayo, kurugero, avuga ko udashaka kunegura abana bawe imbere yinshuti zabo. Ikintu kimwe kirakoreshwa kukazi.

 

3. Guhura

 

Iri ni ijambo mama yazanye avuga ko ushaka gukemura ibibazo ntubemere gukomera. Kuba mu guhangana ntibisobanura kuba guhangana. Mubyukuri, bisobanura ibinyuranye. Bivuze ko ushaka gukemura ikibazo muburyo bwubaka, ariko ushaka gukemura ikibazo.

 

4. Irinde amakimbirane adakenewe

irinde amakimbirane adakenewe, kugereranya no guhatana. Niba ushobora gukora ibyo bintu, ukaniyibutsa… igihe cyose nkoze kandi nkifata, biramfasha cyane kuko bihindura igitekerezo bibi mumutwe wanjye kandi bintera kumva meze neza, kandi bintera kuba umuntu mwiza kuba hirya no hino.

 

5. Umva abantu

Rimwe na rimwe, mama avuga ati: “Abantu bakeneye kubiganiraho gusa”. Wicaye gusa wumve, wumve witonze, kandi bazabishima rwose. Ndacyibuka mama yicaye kumeza yigikoni hamwe ninshuti zose nabavandimwe, kandi nibyo yakora, kandi bahoraga bumva bamerewe neza.

 

6. Ubereke uko bikorwa

 

Nigute Wakundwa Kandi Ukanubahwa
Nigute Wakundwa Kandi Ukanubahwa

Urashobora gutekereza kuri ibi nkurugero rwerekana imyitwarire, cyangwa kwerekana aho gusobanura gusa.

Aho ibi bigeze, mama ni umuganga wabana kandi mugihe yaba yeretse ababyeyi bashya uko bakunda abana babo, yarabatoraguye akerekana ati: “Uku niko ukunda umwana” – yabaha icyo nise guhobera umubiri wose.

Yatoragura umwana, agafata umutwe agakunda umwana gusa, bityo umubiri we wose waba urwanya uwawe kandi yari yunamye umutwe wumwana. Uhereye kuri ibyo, ababyeyi bashya bashoboraga kubona atari ugutora umwana gusa, urebe neza ko ushyigikiye ijosi, ariko ni uko ukunda umwana. Wereka umubyeyi uko yabikora. Nzi neza ko hari ahantu mu kazi aho twese dushobora kubikora.

 

7. Ba imbaraga nziza

 

Mama ageze muri Amerika, yagabanije izina rye kuri KC – mubyukuri ni Kuang-Chung. Rero, aribyiza cyane kandi byihuse. Ari wenyine kandi yorohewe muruhu rwe, kandi atuma abantu bose bamukikije bumva bamerewe neza, bishimye kandi beza. Ibi abikora gusa muguhuza no gutera inshinge nyinshi zingufu nziza. Avuga ibintu muburyo bwiza, atuma abantu bumva bakomeye, kandi abantu batangiye kubyita ‘KC factor’. Reka rero twese tugerageze gushyira ibindi ‘KC factor’ mubuzima bwacu.

 

8. Reba ibishoboka

 

Kuruhande rwibyo ‘KC factor’ tumaze kuvuga, ibi nukureba ibishoboka no kubona uburyo bwo gukemura ibibazo .Kurugero, mugihe twari bato, twaba dutetse tukavuga tuti: “Yoo, turashaka gukora iri funguro hamwe na sosi ya teriyaki, ariko ntabwo dufite isosi ya teriyaki. Oya oya, ntidushobora kubikora. ” Yaraje akavuga ati: “Nibyo, kuki utakoresha isosi ya soya hamwe nisukari, kandi dushobora gukora isosi yacu ya teriyaki?”, Birumvikana ko byagenze neza. Kandi nk’umuryango mwiza w’Abashinwa, twahoraga dufite isosi ya soya hirya no hino. Yari ameze nka verisiyo yumugore yiyo miterere ya TV “MacGyver” – uzi uburyo yashobora gukoresha kaseti numugozi nibindi byose byari biryamye muri garage aho abantu bose bari bafunzwe bugwate, bagakora indege kugirango bashobore gusohoka. hanyuma uhunge ufate abasore babi.

Reba rero ibishoboka, ushishoze kandi utekereze.

 

9. “Imbwa ni imbwa”

 

Ndabizi, bisa nkibidashoboka gutongana numugore, sibyo? Ndashaka kuvuga, imbwa nimbwa, ushobora gute gutongana? Icyo ashaka kuvuga nukuvuga, urashobora kwitega gusa ko imbwa yitwara nkimbwa, kandi ntameze nkinjangwe cyangwa igisimba.

Iyo ushyize mubikorwa kubantu, ni uko abantu bazakunda kwitwara uko bameze hanyuma bagasubira mubwoko. Ntidukwiye rero gutungurwa mugihe abantu bakora ibintu muburyo bujyanye nuburyo bumeze, nubwo atari ibyo dutegereje cyangwa twifuza.

Binyibukije kandi inkuru ivuga ku gikeri na sikorupiyo, aho sikorupiyo ishaka kugera hakurya yicyuzi. Igikeri kiti: “Kuki ngutwara? Ugiye kunduma gusa tuzapfa. ” Scorpion igira iti: “Birumvikana ko atari byo, ni inyungu zanjye bwite kutagukomeretsa.” Bagera hagati yicyuzi kandi birumvikana ko sikorupiyo ikubita igikeri. Igikeri kiragenda, “Kuki wabikoze?” Scorpion iragenda iti: “Nibyo, sinshobora kubufasha, ndi sikorupiyo.” Imbwa rero ni imbwa.

 

 

10. Ntugahatwe nubushobozi bwawe bwite

Iki nikintu kireba abageraho bose. Mama yakundaga kundeba urugamba no gukora cyane kuko nari mfite ubwo bushobozi nagerageje kubigeraho, kandi nari mfite ibintu byinshi nashakaga gukora.

Ubu ni bwo buryo bwe bwo kuvuga, “Hey, ugomba no kwishimira ubuzima. Ntugahangayikishwe nibyo societe ikubwira icyo ugomba gukora – ni icyemezo cyawe ”, cyangwa icyemezo cyanjye niba nshaka kuzuza ubushobozi bwanjye bwose cyangwa ntabishaka. Niba mpisemo kubikora, bikomeye, genda kubyo. Kandi urashaka kwishimira gukora ibyo ariko ntugahangayikishwe nibyo abandi bategerejeho kugirango wuzuze ubushobozi bwawe. Urabona guhitamo, uhitamo, ni ubuzima bwawe.

Yanyibukije kandi ko hano hari ikarito ya Charles Schulz Peanuts aho afite imiterere yikarito – sinshobora kwibuka iyo ari yo; birashoboka ko yari Lucy – ahanditse ngo, “Umutwaro uremereye nubushobozi bwawe bwite.

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